Sharing your own stories with your children to illustrate a lesson you have learned over the years is a powerful teaching tool. Everyone loves a story. You can be almost certain your children will listen with better attention to a well told story as opposed to advice. Almost no one likes to be told what to do. Through the telling of a story, a child's mind is opened up to the possibilities in a situation. Of course, the story must be told in such a manner that it holds the child's interest. To do this, think back on the stories you found interesting as a child. What was it about them that moved you or excited you? Oftentimes it is as much in the telling of the story as it is in the story itself. Using expressive language and voice helps. 
       You might think that you don't have any stories worth telling. I'll bet  that you do! There are many times in your life when you have made a decision that was the right one, or the wrong one. Why did you make that particular decision over other choices and how did it work out for you? 
     You may not have climbed the highest mountain or fought crocodiles in Africa, but you have had to make many decisions as you grew up. The wisdom you learned from your experiences can help your children as they grow.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
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