In the parent/child relationship there are things happening every day that mold and change how the parent and child interact and how they view each other. Over the days, weeks and years, these things become more important and eventually will shape the relationship when the child is no longer a child. Here are a few suggestions of what a parent can do to help that relationship become a healthy one that is good for both the parent and the child. 
--Let your child know the he/she is unique and that they know things you could benefit from.
--Send him/her a handwritten note with your reflections on your relationship.
--Don't try to impress your child that you are perfect. Let them know you are aware that you have your imperfections and
   you are trying to deal with them. 
--Share with your children the stories of your life and the stories you remember of your parents. Write them down.
--Keep a journal of the life of your children from the time they are born until they are eighteen. Present the journal to your
   child when they are about to have their own child. 
Perhaps you have some other ideas. Please share them with us.
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
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